Judging
2024-06-08 Update about this post and others like it: Below is a typical example of the curse of relativism which I once fell for. I was deceived. Now I know all the below is false.
"There is no means of testing which decision is better, because there is no basis for comparison. We live everything as it comes, without warning, like an actor going on cold. And what can life be worth if the first rehearsal for life is life itself?" Milan Kundera, The Unbearable Lightness Of Being.
No one before Milan was able to phrase our ignorance in such beauty. What was it that Milan was trying to phrase? We don't know a lot of things. And it can be anything.
For example, no one knows what love is. So maybe we can claim it and make a religion out of it?? We'll make some profit. Pifffffff. If it was truly love what we claimed, then this is the point when it starts turning into something else. Always look deeper than the crust, and search for the truth. Now what is the truth? We don't know, but if it existed, each one of us would be connected to it in a unique way, and this is why no one can tell us the way, we have to find it ourselves. We have to be fully conscious, and have our eyes open. This is why, I always ask you on my part: do not change; I will never judge you. I accept you as you are, and however you are.
We can all feel love. But we can't express it faithfully, because the outside isn't as perfect as the inside. This is why no expression of love can express it faithfully. No phrase. No sentence. No religion. Love remains free, like freedom, like justice; and it cannot be captured. This is why I say: do not be fooled by what others say including me. Always try to understand. So why don't we put our swords down, and sit down for a discussion? Why don't we? Tell me tell me..